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Lexus RX 450h Hybrid: A Control Freak Mom’s Dream Ride

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Lexus RX 450h Hybrid: A Control Freak Mom’s Dream Ride


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I’m going to start off this Lexus RX 450h review with the following disclaimer: My favorite car that I have ever owned was the original Lexus RX 300. I bought this car when it first came out and loved it all through the three year lease term it was mine. I loved it so much I did the possibly tacky deed – I had the silver L gold plated. When I was pregnant for the first time, my husband drove me around in this car so I could finally get some sleep. That is how comfy the seats were. So you see, me and the Lexus Rx series? We go way back.

I wasn’t particularly thrilled however, when Lexus first redesigned the RX (without consulting me!).  I was so loyal to the original, that I couldn’t roll with the changes. I moved on to other vehicles, unaware how much I’d miss ol’ Lexie in the years to follow. So it was with a great sense of nostalgia and anticipation that I accepted the RX 450h for a review.

Hopping into the drivers seat, it all came back to me. Why I love the Lexus. It’s because as a mom, and as a driver, I am such a control freak. I fully admit it.  Thankfully the Lexus RX 450h celebrates this fact and lets me get my freak on and fly that Control Freak Mom flag high.

Control freak fact #1.  The loyal Lexus 450h loves me back.

Of all the cars I’ve driven over the years, none compare to the comfort and responsiveness of the Lexus RX. I hardly feel like I am driving. It’s like the car and I have achieved a Vulcan mind meld of some sort and I have only to think “merge left” and the merge is seamlessly occurring. As a driver of many a large SUV and minivan, I am occasionally unsettled by the feeling that the car is driving me. Nobody needs to feel like a bossy nag who is just trying to get the @#$! car to listen up and get it’s butt into that parking spot. The Lexus 450h made me feel like a celebrity. It was all “yes ma’am” and “what can I do for you?” and “let me cool your bum with my seat fan”  before I even had to ask .

Control Freak Fact #2: I go first.

I know it is polite to take turns. I’m polite. But sometimes you gotta gun it in Cali. Like when you are getting onto the freeway at metered rush hour and you are one of two cars allowed onto the road per green light, and a large truck is coming at you in the merge lane.  This is the moment, when mama has to get up and GO. This is also the moment that makes me think twice about any possibly sluggish hybrid. But no worries with the Lexus 450h. The truck and the van that was merging beside me? Eating my dust.

Control Freak Fact #: It’s my party and I’m the DJ.

The 450h that I tested was complete with a navigation and entertainment system that I wish I could transplant onto my present car. My kids (wrongly) think they are the boss of me. Hence their silly demands to turn up the radio, change the station, turn on a cd, locate the nearest rest stop etc. Of course doing all this is easier said then done while you are driving the car on the freeway. Unless you have the Lexus 450h. The entire nav/entertainment system is controlled by a simple touch sensitive (no looking at the controls) joystick with a display placed centrally, up high on the dash. No more scrabbling to press the right buttons down low between the seats to change between radio stations, and get that video started for your kids. As a total control freak, I hate to take my eyes off the road for even an instant. With this incredibly well designed system, I don’t really have to. I also don’t have to tell my kids how easy it would be to start their video. I’m still sticking with “Mommy can’t change the radio station while driving.”

Control Freak Fact #4 My car is on a diet, and it’s going great!

Feeding your SUV can get tiresome. All the pit stops, all the fill ups. I never had to fill the Lexus RX450 once the entire week I had it. Not that I was trying to be cheap, but it did not run out of gas. I went to San Diego on a 130 mile round trip jaunt, I drove the kids to school. I drove it to the grocery store and beyond. It kept going. The needle never dipped below a quarter tank. It got great mileage. Did I keep track? Well, no. I’m not that kind of control freak. I hate doing math and counting calories too. But lets just say the Lexus was an awfully cheap date. All salad and water.

Control Freak Fact #4: I  always travel with my entourage and all my stuff.

I really resent when a car makes me choose between carrying my stroller and my groceries. It’s like it’s trying to tell me I cannot take my kids shopping. Maybe the car is right. Taking my kids shopping is always a disaster. But it’s my disaster, and I’ll make that choice, thank you very much! I was able to get the stroller, the groceries and all four of my kids into the Lexus 450h (my 12 year old meets the size restrictions for riding in the front seat). Too bad for the husband. He had to stay at home. But, technically, I am not sure he minded.

If I was in the market for a hybrid for my family, and could afford the Lexus, I would buy this car in an instant. It’s safe, it’s fun to drive, it’s comfortable, and it’s eco friendlier than the rest of the pack.

If you:

  • have three kids or less (or you don’t mind a car that cannot fit your whole family)
  • are a control freak mama like myself
  • like luxury, spaciousness and conveniences aplenty
  • are looking for a first class hybrid vehicle for your family

then the Lexus  RX 450h may be your dream ride as well.

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Mommy/Daddy Drives: The 2000 Toyota Sienna

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Mommy/Daddy Drives: The 2000 Toyota Sienna


2000siennaName: Susan Whitehead

Our Family Car: 2000 Toyota Sienna

Number of Kids: FIVE!!

Geographic Region: Eastern NC

Ages: Mom: 34, Dad: 35, Kids: 10, 8, 5, 3, 4 months

Thing I love most about my car: It’s SO dependable and drives very well.

Thing I hate most about my car: The brakes SQUEAL!

If I could change one thing about my car it would be: I’d make it bigger

What we call the car: The van

I don’t leave home without: A diaper bag and cell phone

Longest road trip with kids: 3 day drive from San Antonio to NC

Favorite driving music when alone: ALONE?? Usually just about anything loud!

Favorite driving music with kids in the car: Go Fish or Classical

Worst car moment: Accidentally backing into a ditch not 100 yards from our house and getting stuck. Had a kind farmer come by and helped me get out, but I had to hang on the outside of the car by the luggage rack (standing on the running boards) to be a counter weight so the back tires were on the ground. All with 4 kids inside. :o )

Car snack of choice: Hmmm…pretzel rods

Last car before kids: Honda Accord

Most embarrassing thing you have ever done in a car: Nothing…seriously. :o )

Weirdest item in the family car right now: Probably something my kids left and I am not aware of…yet.

Drive thru dining? (Yes or No): YES

Funniest fight between your kids was: probably them saying “Don’t see me”

Oldest food item found in car: We recently found a Gerber Sweet Potato puff under a car seat from *blushing* 2006. ewww

My next car will be: Probably a Suburban, but maybe a Toyota that fits 8. Don’t know yet!

Susan Whitehead is a mommy driver and the owner of Custom Internet Marketing Solutions for small business owners.

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How To: Pack the 5 Essentials for Your Family Car

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How To: Pack the 5 Essentials for Your Family Car


Last week I polled friends on Facebook and followers on Twitter for what they consider the 5 essential items that every parent needs to have in the car. The responses did not trickle in. They flooded! I heard from dozens of parents, automotive experts, product experts, organization experts, safety experts, store owners, site owners and product manufacturers. Here are their responses, in order of popularity

1. Wipes! Wipes are the #1 thing that parents don’t want to hit the road without. What kind of wipes? Half our respondents suggested plain old baby wipes, while the other half suggested something with anti bacterial properties. We suggest both kinds be stocked. If there is one thing a parent can’t have too much of, it’s probably wipes!

2. Snacks. Everyone suggested that you have some snacks in the car for emergency munching. But the jury was divided on the type of snacks. Most of the moms that responded suggested packing water bottles along with healthy non-perishable dry snacks such as crackers, 100 calorie packs of snacks, trailmix and dried fruit*. But a few wise moms suggested that you keep a stash of suckers in the glove compartment at all times. We like organic lollipops from Trader Joes or good ol’ Dum Dum pops. It’s a lot of bribery power for only a little sugar.

*Note: one sage mom pointed out that dried fruit ups the potty disaster potential – so keep this in mind if you’re a raisin fan!

3. Entertainment. Experts agree – entertainment in the family car is a top essential! The type of entertainment, however, is really up to you. Only you know the best way to amuse and distract your offspring. Suggestions from seasoned parents include portable DVD players, music CD’s, busywork “kits” of their favorite toys, art supplies, and handheld electronic games*. It’s all good if it means peace in the back seat.

*Note: Make sure to stash extra batteries if you rely on electronics.

4. Bags to Contain the Mess. When you travel with kids, sooner or later there will be a mess. Wet clothes, potty accidents, regurgitated lunches, spills, mud – you name it. Best to be prepared! Garbage bags were the solution of most moms* but a few more fashionable sorts suggested that you mask your messy situation with a stylish solution, using pretty Wet Bags like the ones from WetHappened to camoflauge and control the mess.

* Garbage Bag Bonus: regular trashbags are useful for getting the garbage out of the car and can double as a rain poncho in a pinch!

5. Change of Clothes & Underwear. After the spills, there are sure to be chills. A change of clothes for kids is always a good idea. And clean underwear is essential. Toss in a spare tee for yourself and a sweater or jacket that can be used by whichever kid forgot their coat this time.

Final Note: One item you may be surprised not to see on this list, is an emergency medical/first aid kit. We strongly urge ALL drivers to keep this essential in their car, not just parents. We assumed this essential was in place when we compiled our list of parent essentials. If you don’t already have a first aid kit in your car we recommend you purchase a Medibag from ME4Kidz post haste. And some wipes!

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The Minivan Wars: Moms Who Love Their Minivans Speak Up


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Yesterday we brought you to the front lines of a battle raging in our school drop off lanes and mall parking lots. The Minivan Wars. We met with the rebel front – moms who told us about why they would rather drive pretty much anything besides a minivan. Their arguments were compelling.

Today we hear from minivan loving moms who have drunk the Soccer Snack Kool-Aid, and lived to tell the tale. They answered my query in overwhelming numbers. They also sported such a consistant story line, that I initially felt they were either members of a bizarre cult, or truly on to something .

While the Anti-Minivan Moms had a real knack for poking fun at the van drivers,  the Pro-Minivan Moms seemed to take this in stride and had no problem poking fun at themselves. They were nothing if not good sports. Their message to moms everywhere?

Time to Get Over Ourselves

 When it comes to moms who love their minivans, the politics are still at play, but priorities have shifted. For most of these women, it was a shock to find themselves at the wheel of their minivan. How did they get there?

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